Tanya Worthy March 23, 2021 Parenting
Because the temporary parenting plan acts as a bridge during divorce proceedings, it will eventually be replaced by a permanent parenting plan. It can be as detailed or as simple as the parents desire. Parents may create a temporary arrangement based on their children`s needs and their own schedules using custody software such as Custody X Change. The software offers detailed templates to help parents create clear, workable plans that can be printed out and submitted to attorneys or to the family court. Generally, the courts will approve a parent-created plan as long as it shows that the children`s needs are being met in the best possible way.
If you and the other parent have similar values and parenting styles, the chances for success with a shared plan increase. When children are exposed to one person`s methods, which are completely reversed with the other parent, it can cause confusion, stress and divided loyalty. Your children will benefit from joint custody if you and the other parent see eye to eye on many basic child rearing practices.
Working together in mediation allows you to reduce conflict because you are working with a third party. It also allows you to take as long as your reasonably need to reach an agreement that is in the best interest of your children.
Your original parenting plan most likely won`t fit your family`s needs forever, so you and the other parent must negotiate changes. You owe it to your children to work together to provide the best possible environments for your children through open communication. In order to negotiate effectively, you must have a certain level of trust and commitment established so you can agree on the best way to parent your children and to revise the parenting plan as your family changes and grows. Even though you are no longer together, you will always be partners when it comes to providing a supportive and caring life for your children.